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The Struggle Of Being Alone

January 05, 2018

People that are codependent or that have a love addiction are people that feel complete when they are in a relationship. They look to the other person to fulfill the relationship and provide a way to identify with themselves and…

Join My Tribe

January 04, 2018

My passion to support  love addicts, relationship addicts, and codependents continues into the New Year with the launch of my new book, The Marriage and Relationship Junkie and my new FREE FB tribe, the Relationship Junkie group.  I am one…

Why We Chase Unavailable People

December 28, 2017

Does the imagination dwell the most upon a woman won or a woman lost?~William Butler Yeats, in The Tower Many men and women find they have a history of falling in love with an unavailable person and they wonder why…

The Male Love Addict: Does it Exist?

December 20, 2017

Many people want to know if male love addicts differ from female love addicts. The answer is yes and no. For most part male codependent men exhibit the same symptoms as women. However male love addict do have some differences.​…

Marriage, Meghan, And the Prince

December 06, 2017

For many people, the Royal Family offers a glimpse into a world that is both traditional as well as fascinating. This is true for people in the United States as well as around the world. It seems as if royal…

The Mystery of Attraction

November 28, 2017

Attraction is mysterious. Just why do we become attracted to “certain” people? Part of the answer lies in our history. We are attracted to our first love which is usually the parent of the opposite sex. We are also attracted…

Separation Anxiety

November 21, 2017

Maybe you have never wondered why you feel so sad when a relationship ends, but I do, especially if I know the relationship was not making me happy. The conclusion I have come to is that when a relationship ends,…

Cold Turkey Break-Up

November 08, 2017

When you break up with someone, whether it was you who did the breaking up or not, it is absolutely vital that you make no contact with your ex. That means not even a text or a phone call or…

Seductive Withholders

October 30, 2017

Seductive Withholders (SW’s) are people who can act very seductive one moment (implying they are available), and then very withholding the next. The shift is dramatic and comes at unexpected times. Every SW has his or her own style of…