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Cold Turkey Break-Up

November 08, 2017

When you break up with someone, whether it was you who did the breaking up or not, it is absolutely vital that you make no contact with your ex. That means not even a text or a phone call or…

Seductive Withholders

October 30, 2017

Seductive Withholders (SW’s) are people who can act very seductive one moment (implying they are available), and then very withholding the next. The shift is dramatic and comes at unexpected times. Every SW has his or her own style of…

Ambivalence, Relationships and Love Addiction

October 17, 2017

We want love, but we are afraid of it. We seek out a relationship and then sabotage it the first chance we get. We want space and when we get it we are lonely. We can’t live without a relationship…

JOIN US!

August 28, 2017

Join the 5th Annual  Recovery Today Series www.recoverytodayseries.com online conference sponsored by Soba Recovery Center.  Sherry Gaba, Editor of Recovery Today Magazine will be interviewing  20 of the greatest transformational leaders and addiction experts of our time.  Addiction does not just mean…

Getting it Right

August 23, 2017

One of the most common mistakes people make these days is trying to find a partner when they are coming from a wounded place. By this I mean they were either neglected or abused–sometimes both. If they were wounded as…

The Law Of Attraction And Relationship Issues

August 11, 2017

Being addicted to love is not the same as being a sex addict, a drug addict or an alcoholic. Love addicts are drawn to people that initially cause them to feel part of a whole rather than as an isolated…

Is Love Addiction the Same as Sex Addiction

July 21, 2017

Are sex addiction and love addiction the same thing? No! sex addicts are addicted to the sexual experience. The goal is orgasm. Emotional intimacy is not important. Many professionals believe that the preoccupation with sex is an attempt to avoid…

The Imago

July 12, 2017

According to Harville Hendrix we are attracted to our Imago–what he calls our dream partner– an image of which we carry around in our brain. The Imago is like a puzzle. As we are growing up, every time someone significant…

Is The Law Of Attraction In Play For An Addict?

June 19, 2017

It is common to hear addicts talk about themselves as if they were different than other people. They have often gone through so much and felt dehumanized so many times that seeing things work for other people is like watching…

Using The Law Of Attraction To Change Codependency

June 16, 2017

In all aspects of life, the Law of Attraction lets us know that our thoughts about that issue are a direct precursor to what we will receive. Unfortunately, our thoughts are often counterproductive to what we want to accomplish, which…