Let Go of the Illusion, Not the Love
Are you forever in search of Mr. or Mrs. Right?
Is it hard to sustain loving relationships?
Does the idea of being alone feel unbearable?
If you have suffered in your love relationships and find yourself repeating unhealthy patterns of desperation and loss or divorce, love addiction coaching can help.
My name is Sherry Gabba. I’m a recognized expert on love addiction and I want to help you undo your love addiction and take back your life. Over the years, I have counseled thousands of people just like you work through heartbreak and break the pattern of obsessive love.
You may not know that love is addictive. When you are in love, your brain reacts with a hormone called Oxytocin. Love addiction is just as real as any other addiction. It’s easy to get addicted to the “high” that love creates.
This compulsion combined with low self esteem, unrealistic beliefs about “perfect love,” and seeking to fulfill your needs with others creates a dangerous pattern that leads to heartache and heartbreak. This can cause you to feel desperate for your next “love fix” and make poor choices with love, romance, or sex to fulfill it.
Are you struggling an unhealthy obsession with your partner or ex?
Does your obsessive love stem from un-resolved childhood trauma?
Are you always changing yourself to suit your partner?
Do you overreact to the slightest signs that your partner or date is no longer interested?
Do you stay in abusive, painful, incompatible and unfulfilling relationships because you are afraid to be alone and single?
Are you addicted to online dating and dating apps?
As a therapist and Relationship Coach with a specialty in “love addiction” I can help you:
— Discover what healthy love and intimacy looks like
— Take an honest look at your behavior and beliefs
— Release past trauma or abuse that is affecting you
— Find any recurring patterns in the partners you choose
— Learn to truly love yourself so you never feel clingy, needy, or desperate again
— Stand up for yourself and set healthy boundaries
— Feel more confident so you don’t need others to affirm you
— Make a personal plan for your recovery process
— Avoid another divorce
If you find yourself searching endlessly for that special someone only to be disappointed, find out if you are a “love addict” by taking this quiz.
Ready To Find The Healthy Intimacy And Love You Deserve?
If you feel you may have a problem with love addiction, let’s set up a time to talk about your situation and how I can help.
I offer Zoom appointments only.
Narcissism And Love Addiction Ebook
Understanding the complex issues love addiction and the relationship to narcissism is an important part of breaking the cycle and finding healthy, positive relationships in the future. Knowing how to identify a narcissist if love addiction is present is one of the first steps in becoming aware of the danger of the narcissist and love addict codependent. Please download your free ebook “Narcissism and Love Addiction.”
Sherry’s segment on Access Live
Discussing Love Addiction and her book, The Marriage and Relationship Junkie: Kicking your Obsession
It’s Complicated podcast interview about The Marriage and Relationship Junkie:
Kicking your Obsession, Love Addiction, Codependency and Letting go of the Illusion, Not the Love.