by Sherry Gaba | Jul 9, 2024 | Abuse, Narcissism
The aftermath of a toxic relationship can be incredibly challenging to navigate, and one of the reasons for this is the presence of what I like to call “flying monkeys” of the narcissist. These flying monkeys are individuals who are manipulated or...
by Sherry Gaba | Jun 18, 2024 | Abuse, Relationships, Trauma
Certain behaviors by others can trigger childhood wounds because they resonate with past experiences and emotions that were unresolved or traumatic during childhood. Our early experiences shape our beliefs, perceptions, and expectations about ourselves and others....
by Sherry Gaba | May 7, 2024 | Abuse, Narcissism, Relationships
Future faking is a manipulative tactic commonly used by narcissists to gain control and manipulate their victims emotionally. It involves making false promises or commitments about the future in order to keep the victim attached and invested in the relationship. The...
by Sherry Gaba | Apr 9, 2024 | Abuse, Narcissism, Relationships
Narcissists often label their ex-partners as “crazy” or “problematic” as a way to deflect responsibility and protect their own self-image. This behavior is rooted in their need for control and manipulation. By portraying their exes as the ones...
by Sherry Gaba | Apr 2, 2024 | Abuse, Relationships
Blame shifting in toxic relationships is a manipulative tactic used by one party to avoid taking responsibility for their actions or behavior. It involves the person who is at fault deflecting blame onto their partner, making them feel guilty or responsible for the...